What parent has not heard his child scream "that's not fair!" Well, as an adult I am as convinced as ever about at least two things I argued were unfair when I was youngster were and are still unfair. My parents always told us that "if you get a whipping at school, you'll get a worse one when you get home." I insisted that if misbehavior at school was punished there, that ended it. What the parent meant was "if you get a whipping at school, Ill be so embarrassed Ill feel like punishing you again."
What about the psychological pain of being sent to get a switch to be used to punish you? Terribly unfair. How weak a switch can I get that will satisfy the parent giving the punishment and yet not hurt too much? That was more talked about than actually done, I expect. Anyway, just two things I thought unfair as a child to my mind are unfair now.
No comments:
Post a Comment